Outer or physical love with it’s projections, conditions, and drama can bring happiness, however it can be very fleeting with it’s ups and downs. Sometimes this endures for a time, but never-the-less, conditional.  Inner or soul love between you and the Divine not only brings great enduring joy, but is unconditional and eternal.  One can have both the former and the latter, but the “lover and the Beloved (God)” gives one true happiness and impetus for a good life.  Love one another with kindness and tolerance.