A very popular teaching is going around these days called ” The Law of Attraction.”  I’m not saying that this is false, but is certainly has all the arrows pointing to you, and some kind of material gain is the desired result.  In the spiritual world a better statement would be ” seek and you shall find.”  It is true that you will attract spiritual understanding by the seeking process, however, the result will be that one will start seeing others in a different light: as connected and all part of the same “Oneness.”  Change the idea to a ” law of extraction” and start giving to others and your spirit will soar.  Love one another with kindness and tolerance.